Dating Self Development By Erin Lane / November 12, 2015 If you cheat on your boyfriend, fiancé, or husband, you should ask for his forgiveness (if possible) and learn how to forgive yourself for cheating on him. You can attain forgiveness only if both of you are involved. Your involvement entails forgiving yourself. If you don’t, you’ll keep beating yourself up even after he’s forgiven you. Feeling so can have adverse effects in the relationship that could cause it to fail. But that’s just part of the big picture. Why do women cheat? There aren’t as many articles on why women cheat as articles on why men cheat. There should be plenty, as far as we’re concerned, because having many articles on the topic could better explain why women become unfaithful, thereby helping create better solutions. As our contribution, here are some of the most common reasons why women cheat: 1. Neglect Loving someone entails caring for the person. If a woman’s boyfriend, fiancé, or husband truly loves her, he’d go out of his way to attend to her needs, not as a servant but as a good partner should do. If a woman’s guy disregards her, she’ll soon seek someone who’ll truly care for her. 2. Lack or Breakdown of Communication It goes without saying that there should be healthy communication between a woman and her boyfriend, fiancé, or husband. By talking to each other daily, they’ll learn continuously about each other. For instance, they’ll find out about the things they each like, enabling them to make each other truly happy. Rarely or not communicating at all makes everything in the relationship a mystery. Not knowing everything a couple should about each other can cause several problems. For example, a woman’s man can’t fix a problem with the relationship if he’s oblivious to it. If it isn’t dealt with, the problem might worsen to a degree that could end the relationship. 3. Falling Out of Love There are various reasons why a woman might fall out of love. Her guy can try to make her fall in love with him once again, but there’s no guaranteeing he’ll succeed. Certain transgressions make it impossible to save a romantic relationship. He could’ve avoided this tragedy if there was healthy communication between him and her. He could’ve found out what was wrong and, with this knowledge, made the needed changes to the relationship. 4. Boredom Love is among the spices of life. This emotion is exciting, invigorating, and even life-changing. A woman would be willing to do almost anything for the man she truly loves. If he can’t make her feel this way, it won’t take long until she looks for someone who can. Men have described women as enigmas for being difficult to understand. While women tend to be cryptic sometimes, it shouldn’t stop men from loving them. It only means that men should make a sincere effort in figuring out women. Doing so will be worth it.