Self Development By Mae Davies / May 19, 2014 Attraction defies all the set standards only to tell us that we can’t dictate our destiny and the people we attract in our lives. The freedom to choose your partner is absolutely important, but we don’t always attract the ones we want. Having this upper hand cuts the difficulty in half, and we just need to be more active in this equation. Below are some helpful information and tips on how to attract positive people in your life. Usually, attraction is based on outer beauty, intelligence, financial capacity, and other coveted traits. Understanding the energy that exchanges between the giver and the drainer of the energy helps us to see beyond what we want and to go beyond to attract positive people that we’ll truly benefit from. Who are the Positive People? Before you attract positive people in your life, it would be good to know who we are talking about. Positive people are driven, willing to do anything to follow their dreams, and are the first ones to admit their mistakes. They care about themselves and other people and are level-headed enough to be aware that they are not perfect, yet they are willing to overcome their negative sides. In contrast, their opposites give you a very fake vibe of perfection. They push themselves too hard that they reach a stage of depression before they achieve their goals. Usually people pleasers, they are trapped in this world of fear that’s fed by their desire to be accepted. Having defined who they are, there are some strategies that could actively give you the capability to be with positive people. Love Comes from Within Positivity begets positivity. It’s as easy as that. We attract the kind of person we are, and that would explain the kind of friends that you have right now. Though it’s impossible to be positive all the time, there are some sources that you can tap to transform a down moment into a wonderful one. All of us have really nice memories or good goals in mind. Tap into them whenever you feel you are not at your best or when you just don’t want to smile and notice how people positively react to your mood change. Clean-up Negativity build-up Our body is a vessel and carries different types of emotions, whether good or bad. As a vessel, it also has a capacity that should be regularly monitored. Too much negativity usually results in lesser space for positivity to enter your life, and the moment that you feel it affects you and the way you relate to people, it would be a good idea to take stock of your life and analyze the areas that are causing it. This regular cleansing can be done in a variety of ways, like meditating and journaling. Magnify the Best of You What people see is what they normally get. So before meeting other people, go and determine your best qualities, and use them to shine like the star that you are. Give yourself a little pep talk and tell yourself how resilient you are and how ready you are to meet this person. This personal dialogue with yourself shall magnify those outwards to the person in front of you, which is the most charming thing imaginable. Mediation is Key Studies have proven the healing effect of meditation that changes our moods for the positive. You don’t need to do a headstand or bring a mat with you all the time. You just need to devote a specific time of the day for it and just watch it take over your life in the most positive way. All tips are touted to attract positive people you need. They are the best company to keep and the sooner you find them, the better.