Walking with the Single Ladies

Walking with the Single Ladies
From a distance, a quick eye can immediately spot the difference between single women and in-relationship ladies.  The two groups have their own beauty that starts from within then eventually radiates to the surrounding souls. There are awesome things that only single ladies can do. That’s the best thing about being single – you can always avail anything privileged only for a few.  Aside from a free finger to put a ring on in the near future, there are a variety of benefits only singlehood can provide.

Trendy Outfits 

Single women aren’t afraid to try something different on themselves.  Aside from a successful relationship, one area that makes all girls happy is the trends of fashion and technology.  It may be in a form of bags, dresses, shoes, and gadgets – just name it! 

So, if you happen to see some on the other side of the road, you can easily spot the fresh styles of outfits they set for a whole day of activity. 

Oozing Confidence 

It is innate in a woman to feel comfortable and confident.  Sometimes, wrong relationships and false criticism can bring women down with just a word.  However, single ladies pack together in groups.  Their click shares the same hobby with them, such as shopping, going to a spa, performing recreational activities, or just hanging out. 

As long as their girlfriends are all ready to back them up, they can face the world without fear. 

Successful Career 

If they’re not in a relationship, women tend to concentrate more on their careers than looking for a man.  A job is not just about the money.  Rather, it is about self-fulfillment that women of today would like to promote and empower. 

The age of treating men as the sole provider is over.  Women step out of their comfort zones to head out in the market to make a difference. 

Mind you, in every successful higher management is a group of independent ladies controlling the operational activities to reach the company’s annual goal. 

single ladiesFinancially Stable  

Since there are no other ways to spend money aside from clothes and accessories, women save their money for future use.  They have space to think; a simple apartment with a large closet will do.  Plus, single ladies don’t need a car.  They can walk on the streets flashing their classy heels. 

The 2 Week Diet

If they get tired, a lot of gentlemen will offer them a cab. 

Independent Calendar  

Single women possess a large faction of time in society where they can still have fun.  If you’d rather spend your weekends with someone, call your girls instead.  Surely, they wouldn’t turn the invitation down. 

No dates to remember, no partners to think of, just the single life and the rest of the world. 

Statistically speaking, almost all of the noted successful women have stayed single for so long before they finally jumped into a long-term relationship.  The time spent alone with themselves has somehow given them some preparation for the future they now absolutely lavish with pride. 

There is no rush here.  Settle yourself first before deciding to get involved in a partnership. 

About the author

Mae Davies

BA, MA Psychology (and Conflict Resolution), University of Cambridge (2007). With a decade of trial and error in psychology and 33 years of navigating my own complex (that's one word for it!) relationships with family, friends, co-workers and men, I hope I have some useful knowledge and skills to share with my readers about making sense of relationships and trying to become a better person every day.